This is the perfect sample letter you can write to get your ex back, it will help you understand the different steps of the process you’ll go through and the essential questioning of yourself and of your couple that will allow you to move forward.
The Perfect Sample Letter You Can Write To Get Your Ex Back
“I’m writing you this letter today because I refuse to lose you. Imagining my life without you is impossible. That being said, I am well aware that things need to change, that I need to change, if we don’t want to make the same mistakes all over again. My only wish is to prove to you that I have indeed changed , that I have understood and that I want to make our couple, our love, my priority. I hope that you will read these few lines and that you will accept to listen to me, to trust me again and to give us a second chance.
I have changed
I know what everybody says, that people never truly change, not once you scratch below the surface anyway. Let’s say, if you prefer, that I have evolved, that I have understood many things. I swear to you that it’s true. I realize how much my past behavior was perilous to our love and I hate myself for having been the cause of so much tension between us. I have been selfish, immature, impulsive. The extent of my words was lost on me at the time, and the same can be said of my actions. By becoming a control freak, I lost sight of what really mattered : us. I hadn’t realized how much I was making you suffer. And regarding all of that, our breakup came as an epiphany. I have truly changed, believe you me. Taking this forced step back allowed me to think and to understand how I had wronged you.
I have learned from seperation and distance
Not seeing you, or speaking with you, or being near has been an ordeal for the past few days. But I know that it was a necessary evil. Letting time go by was essential for us to stop hurting each other or suffering from this situation.
I have done a lot of thinking and many things have dawned from that, and I would like to talk to you about them. I’m not going to pretend that I possess infinite truth, but if you give me the chance, I could prove to you that these bad memories belong to the past.
I have learned from our past shortcomings
I am absolutely not denying the importance of the problems we’ve had. I am aware of what has happened and I’m not waving it all away and pretending it was all a dream. I forget nothing, quite the opposite really : I use it to move forward. In order to understand where I have failed, what I have ruined, what went wrong.
I have understood that this acceptance and comprehension of what happened to us was necessary if we hope to start afresh on healthy grouds together. I am not asking you to forget, that is impossible for you as it is for me. I believe however that we don’t need to forget in order to forgive. And that it won’t nourish our bitterness, but quite the contrary actually! Sweeping away the past will lead us to a healthy restart, one that is synonymous with trust, listening, communication and absolute respect. That is my only wish. To find all of this with you again. Because as far as I’m concerned, I have never lost the rest.
I want to win you back
It’s true, I know my mistakes, my faults, my responsibilities, my failures. But I also know that my feelings are resolutely still there. I love you and that has never changed, my love for you has never been the cause of our problems as a couple and of our recent separation. To me that question wasn’t even an issue. I hope, I want to hope, that you feel the same way. That I will not be denied a chance to win you back and to prove my honesty to you, my will of being with you, my feelings.
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That is my dearest wish. Because I want, more than ever, to be with you, at your side, to take care of you and to love you. Imagining a future together, that is my hope, my desire, my goal. I am fully aware that you might need some time, that you probably have some questions. And obviously, that you need proof, actions and that these pretty words won’t be enough to win you back on their own. But I just want, with this letter, to engage this battle, to start proving my honesty, my love and my sincerity.
I love you and I just want your happiness, our happiness. I hope it’s not too late and that we will write our future together.”