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First Tinder messages : 10 examples of first Tinder messages to send

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First Tinder messages : 10 examples of first Tinder messages to send

I had already done an article about the best first messages to send on an online dating website, but in my opinion, a dating app such as Tinder is not at all the same type of operation, so here are 10 examples of first messages on Tinder. First Tinder Messages ? Let’s go !

First Tinder messages : 10 examples of first Tinder messages to send

The WTF?

Did you know why pink flamingos are pink? 

The idea is to ask a question totally out of the blue so as to be sure the person you’re sending it to doesn’t see it coming. If she has a sens of humor, she might answer you with a smile!

First name! Yes, first name!


An approach some of you might already be familiar with, which produces very good results. Very easy : you write her first name followed by an exclamation mark. That way, the lady will be puzzled, I mean, the exclamation mark could mean scolding or being very surprised 🙂

The existential question

If you were to die at midnight, what would you do at 11.45pm? 

Ask her an existential question and get her to rack her brains, even if the topic is really dumb! The point here is also to catch her off guard.

Fishing for a reaction

Stop, I’m shy! 

This message catches the eye because it turns the whole thing upside down! The guy takes the first step all the while saying he’s shy. Give it a try!

Read also : The best examples of catch phrases on online dating

No idea

Hey, [first name], I was looking for a cool pickup line and went totally blank. Wanna help me find one?  😀

Turning the tables again! And being super honest haha


Dear [first name], given that apart from two pictures, I don’t know the first thing about you, maybe we should stop the whole message thing and go grab a glass of peach juice together! 

The truth is that on Tinder, you rarely get any real information at all, so just jump in and ask her out in an original way  🙂

The lightly provocative

(If you notice she has cute chunky cheeks).

Listen, I have a crush on you. Well, on your cheeks more like. If I say they remind me of a cute little gerbil, will you think I’m a weirdo? 

This approach is also a bit out there, but it’s fun and should get you a smile. Unless you find out she’s hysterically susceptible, but in that case, swipe on :p

I mean business

Any plans for tonight? 

At your own risks 😉

The detail from the picture

Pick a detail from her picture and use it.

For example : “The puppy looks cute, what kind of dog is it?”/ “Beautiful sunset! Where was it taken?”

Read also : Perfect first messages online dating examples

The best

(The following message paraphrases the one that one of my friends send to a crush on Tinder and which I thought was so great!!).

I was so surprised to see that a girl as radiant as you was a lonely heart, that I became a little crazy. So I wanted to give you a “Super Like” to set myself apart from the others, but then I thought better of that, imagining you must get about 50 “Super Likes” per hour. So I will simply tell you what I saw in your picture : You are beautiful, but 1. you know that, 2. you must get that all the time and 3. alot of girls on this app are. What differentiates you from the others is your charisma, and the sensitivity flowing from your pictures.

I’m aware of the fact that to you, I’m just another dude amonst many, that I’m not the most handsome, not the smartest nor the strongest, but today I wanted to be the one brave enough to send you an endless message to steal your attention and get to know you better. Hope to read from you soon.

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